The issue really isn’t that there’s an issue saying no, there’s often times a fear with saying no. I am very aware that this is not just a women’s issue, I think any gender, race, ethnicity, or sexual orientation can…
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Jealousy & Relationships
In my last post I began to explain how my partner’s lies effected me in different ways…one of them being subconscious insecurity. I have always been a very secure woman, especially in relationships. To be honest, in relationships I probably verged on…
Girls, Gossip & God
“I just hang out with guys, girls are too much drama.” It literally pains me when I hear women say things like this…but I get it. Let’s face it, I’m sure we’ve all thought or said this at some point…
What Kind Of Woman Will I Be If I Stay?
I’ve been in multiple relationships throughout the years and have experienced different types of happiness…but also different types of hurt. I’ve been lied to. I’ve been cheated on. I’ve been deeply heartbroken. Sometimes I’ve left, sometimes I’ve stayed. Nothing in…
What Does It Mean To ‘Be a Man’ ?
I have had so many conversations about Jay-Z’s latest album because it’s something I feel so many men need to listen to. I think women will absolutely enjoy it as well, however it’ll be a different experience for both. What…
Trust & Relationships
I took a post it note – wrote “I’m done” – stuck it to his phone, and left it on his nightstand. This was the second time he had lied to me, and the second time he had involved a…
Be Grateful For Your EX
Since I’ve started this series about my experience with love I’ve shared extremely personal things about myself, my previous partner, and the relationship we had. I’ve had several people ask me if my ex has read my posts or has…
Staying Single
One of the things that tends to happen after a break up, is everyone around you become match makers all of a sudden. I understand that they believe other people will help you “move on,” help you “forget about your…
Pain, Grief & My Anger Issues with Jesus
Before I get into this post I would just like to thank everyone so much for the response I received from my last post, Hiding the Hurt. Every text message, comment, message and story that was sent and shared with…